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An interesting video appeared on my feed which exposed John Anthony Lifestyle- an interview with one of John Anthony’s former students seemingly a homeless doordash driver – firstly in terms of sexual market economics this idea that “anyone coached can win” needs a bit of common sense – if you’re homeless dating is going to be a tougher game . Of course this guy appears to be in his 30s a virgin, neurodivergent ( just judging by how the interview goes) a door dasher i mean this is a tough case. If I had this many disabilities I would have no success – I haven’t tried dating whilst homeless but I can’t imagine it going well, add to the additional financial issues this guy John Anthony is then taking $3k from him is just exploitation .

I’m not trying to turn this blog into pua hate – some dating coaches are good people , some self help gurus can help- but there are people that have very little hope and shouldn’t have their money taken away from them. Of course with this interview we don’t really know the full picture from John Anthony’s side but at the end of the day it’s clear just looking at this guys’ fashion, his general voice tonne the fact that he’s a 30 odd virgin this is a tough case. Something i’d not know how any coach would solve – this is clearly a bottom of the run man. This guy highlight from John bad service which isn’t a surprise as there are others that have complained on Reddit but I think the student in fairness is a tough case -.

Ice White is enjoying the interview as it’s his chance of exposing John Anthony but even he must be thinking this guy is missing a brain cell and there was no shot at success for him. Of course I believe there’s a moral issue here of taking money from a person with obvious neurodivergence . I sorta do believe the guy’s story though – removing the rut of the litter from your dating course to increase success rates is a believable tactic John Anthony is using – advertise 99 percent success rate by banning the failures before they have a chance to complain.

Then there’s accountability the student should never have given his money to John Anthony himself – a little bit of due diligence would have been enough but men with no experience in the dating life . Ice White again shows his inexperience – interviewing the rut of the litter who have no results when Ice White himself has no results in the dating world himself yet he is a dating coach- he doesn’t seem to be able to note this guy’s obvious disabilities – being a homeless door dasher with 5,000 cold approaches and no results shows he’s obviously got a serious mental issue. Ice White himself has no experience and has never had any successes either so the fact that he’s trying to help when he himself has 0 lays according to John Anthony also is a bit fraudulent and fake. There’s a lack of common sense from him but he’s not experienced enough- has 0 daygame lays and 0 successes himself so him interviewing someone with 0 lays seems a bit pointless . A homeless guy working on doordash is low smv – these guys shouldn’t be exploited for money. Ice White omits these two facts to his convenience- maybe to incriminate John more – it would be an even argument if these two facts weren’t committed but then again I don’t really expect the full picture from either side . It’s also clear from the way this guy dresses that he isn’t really fully there in the head, I’d also critique Ice white’s grooming and self care too which doesn’t look very impressive either. All in all this is a case of the blind leading the blind – as so often is the case in self help guru land.

Also admitting you’re a virgin to the internet is something I ‘d clarify as “over sharing” probably unnecessary- seen as brave but i think some things are best kept a secret imo. I feel sorry for this guy essentially embarrassing himself once by being coned by John Anthony and two being embarrassed in front of the internet for this interview that benefits Ice white a lot more than the guy in question .

All in all this is a sad tale of neurodivergents being exploited by the self help industry. An obvious case of a low iq man being exploited for cash and then embarrassed by the internet . A sad outcome – but extra ammunition for Ice White to fire into John no doubt this could be one of the reasons why John is so passionated and eager to sue Ice. The key lesson here is to do your due diligence – don’t just throw money at any coach with good marketing and trust no one. The problem with the “high ticket sales” guru era is that people are often exploited for cash and then thrown out when they are sucked dry. In this guy’s instance he should never have signed up with John he should have gone to professional help not dating gurus – he should also have fixed his most obvious problem – his homelessness! Not peddling from guru to guru when it’s clear Ice White or John Anthony aren’t gonna fix the problems of this man nor should they be expected too – in-fact if anyone believes that anyone else can turn a homeless door dasher into a stud with the females then they are really mistaken.


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