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This is Liam’s third book in his series of seduction – arguably one of the key faces of TNL from 2012-2017 Liam McRae sorta retired at the correct time – hanging around long enough to gain those big high ticket sales from students but not so long to get media or career ending scrutiny a kin to Tom Torero . His other books “Tinder Success Stories” and “Rapid Escalation” are also books I’m hoping to review soon on my blog – his impact on men’s dating culture may not be as big or grandiose as a James Marshall or Tom Torero but I think he still holds more mature insight to insight than most puas on forums- doesn’t act like a spoilt brat like John Anthony and doesn’t gloat too much excessively like you see many Puas in the dating forums do sometimes . He remains humble and even shares a lot of his failures and the insights to crappy dates which can me important to reaffirming the correct mindsets to dating, sex and relationships.
This book is a lot shorter than “Rapid Escalation” however longer and at more depth then “Tinder Success Stories” – there are little appearances from his wingmen here other than the odd cameo from James Marshall, Shae and Tony Solo although these are limited.
One thing though that is undeniable Liam probably has a lot more Tinder success than the average Joe as he’s able to very quickly schedule 5-6 tinder dates from a few weeks swiping – some of these turning very successful some of not. A portion of the girls seem good the other have questionable personalities one being a Thai hooker regardless Liam also shows the text game insight for each of his successful trips – there’s even cold approach dates sprinkled in in between the tinder lays showing him leading by example and showing his flexibility not to just be reliant on one of game but to utilise good time management and showing that even with a busy schedule cold approach can be done. A big excuse on the forums I see most notably on so suave is that approaching is time consuming which for me is a lame excuse and Liam proves this by being able to go on cold approach dates in addition to social circle and online dates. If Liam can do it in between running a business, fitness, ayahuasca then why can’t you? I found it also so frustrating during my time on the pua forums and wingmen groups just how many men used time as an excuse as to why they didn’t want to do pickup for me it seemed like a lame copout.
Liam starts off the book with a foursome – giving advice on how to have the best anal sex – which may be too alien for amateurs looking to kick start their seduction journey- for me personally group sex isn’t my think and have only been asked to spit roast someone once which I declined. Liam does it here in quite a descriptive sequence of events. He then dates an introverted Thai girl again giving some good honest compassionate advice when dating women of whom English is not their first language. He then list’s some pretty good advice after a series of lmr dates – most notably to not get butthurt about it.
I think this is very important advice as I see on forums like skilled seducer or sosauve when a couple of guys have bad dates or rejection it really gets to them – lmr, blow outs, flakes its all there and is part of the process. It could be seen at times where Liam appears a bit too fuck boy for some people’s liking and I understand for conservative individuals the fact he’s capable to fuck so quickly. For absolute beginners as I mentioned before this might be overwhelming and the Rapid Escalation book which outlines more of the core basics might be seen as more appropriate but even when Liam faces lows he doesn’t panic – he always takes a moment to positively reflect on what he’s achieved and the good moments I think a lot of Puas can take positive insights from him here . Many men go into panic mode or get angry when a date doesn’t result in sex- they feel they’ve fucked up in life just because they haven’t had instant intercourse on the first date or because the girl flaked or stood them up – even after crummy dates Liam is still approaching and doing sets in this book. One lead even ends for him after the date the girl screen shotted a link to his seduction book and found out he was a daygame coach then ignored him but he still persists with finding new leads and successful dates .
The book digresses into fitness and how that’s helped to enhance Liam’s seduction and the importance of getting a coach- a little bit Tony Robbins esque but still interesting – he then gives numerous tips about making sex better , anal and group sex – having not done any of the latter two myself personally I can’t really judge if this is good advice or not but his tips on handling rejection are great imo. He shows an element of life balance – something which puas can often get wrong they are either too focused on approaching and neglect their own smv or they just don’t do enough and use time and life as an excuse – I feel this book is invaluable in demonstrating balance as a key factor .
The final chapters about Ayahausca just weren’t for me – that being said I believe others can benefit from them – his concluding thoughts are something that I think every Pua can learn from – that is primarily the importance of volume . Most men on the dating forums do not have enough volume and i completely agree here with Liam. A lot of them would be better off just focusing on new leads and expanding their social circles of which most seem incapable of doing because they haven’t practiced Daygame or think that Puas are just creeps or either that they lack the self confidence in doing so.
Reference experience is important as Liam outlines he’s had 8 years of doing so which has made him a more confident seducer in leading the highs and lows – he even goes far as detailing 12 dates that went wrong and describing them . He also shows how one girl refuses to date him again after he appears too unnatural- interestingly enough i’ve had girls flake on me for the same reason for being too mechanical . I guess its a problem sometimes of being too confident and slick sometimes the girls don’t feel special and feel like they are one of many? Potentially an issue that comes with too much success in Pua sometimes.
Overall there are many valuable lessons in this book that draw on the emotions many face when dating and dealing with a rotation of girls. There’s flexibility from online, daygame and social circle so there is something for everyone. Liam is honest and a realist and I think a lot of his valuable insights are lost on todays dating forums . Well worth a read if you can grab a copy.
Score 8/10
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